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Circumstantial Nuances of "You're Sleeping Here Tonight"
Photo by Flickr user SiFu Renka. Used under a Creative Commons license.Goose of , in a thoughtful meditation on negotiation in her seriously but also seriously neighborly BDSM community, asks “What do...
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The "No-Sex" Class and Dreaming the Just-a-Little-too-Impossible Dream
Photo “Little Spectator” by Flickr user Proggie. Used under a Creative Commons license.[Note: Big update below — I originally, and possibly shamefully, looked at only one side of the question....
View ArticleRe-Examining Submission and Dominance, Re-Imaging Men
Maymay of Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed, is starting, approximately, a porn site with his sometime partner Eileen. While one might think there were already enough of those in the world his reasons for...
View ArticleInconvenient Lies: Dominance, Submission and Gender
Another follow-up along the same lines of dominance/submissiveness stereotype-breaking I started digging into yesterday. Bitchy Jones of Bitchy Jones’s Diary really struggles with assumptions about...
View ArticleThe Fallacy of "Forced Feminisation"
A seriously steamed dominant female (and manifestly not“femdom”) Bitchy Jones of Bitchy Jones’s Diary explains why she shouldn’t have to explain why the BDSM practice of “forced fem,” the practice of...
View ArticlePossible Benefit For Men From Low-to-Moderate Consumption of Alcohol
Hortense of Jezebel saysSo it turns out that alcohol consumption, once thought to be a leading cause of poor performance in the bedroom, actually improves a man’s sexual abilities, according to a...
View ArticleUnified Field Theory: Evolutionary Psych, Sociobiology Explains Everything
Via economics blogger Tyler Cowen and sex-blogger Violet Blue we’ve got not one but two works of epic fiction, one sociobiology and evolutionary psychology that, together, explain perfectly why so many...
View Article"Raised" Wrong
Replying to a comment of mine about orgasm fetishes, of Miss Calico, who occasionally works as a professional dominant, raises a paradoxical point (emphasis mine.)I think I have been extra, super put...
View Article7orbetter.com? Searching the Length or Breadth of Internet Dating
Another post I’ve been meaning to get to. Back in April Margaret Jezebel let us know about a new dating website.Do you hate wasting your time dating guys and learning all about their thoughts and...
View ArticleA (Possibly Stealth) Objection to Condom Use: Loss of Erection
This week’s question for Em & Lo’s Wise Guys feature is “Is sex with a condom really all that bad?”As usual the answers vary but the consensus tends to be… not all that bad, no, but not so great...
View ArticleReflections on Male Vulnerability Based on Em & Lo's Reflections on...
Em & Lo, on the Sundance group blog Sunfilgered link to a, well, ok, it’s self-evident from the URL...AwkwardBoners.com is one of those genius sites that appeals equally to 13-year-old boys and,...
View ArticleRenewed HNT-Participation Link Plus a Startled Realization About Penises and...
One of the weirder, much-less noted phenomena of internet and porn culture is that a lot of people now have a better idea what a penis looks like erect than how they look most of the time. Even if they...
View ArticleSociety Shouldn't Privilege NAMBLA's Desired Lifestyle, Why Should It...
Yet another complete but unposted draft.You can find out all about the deeply anti-feminist National Organization for Marriage’s “Ruth Institute” project from DailyKos’s Dante Atkins starting here and...
View ArticleScience Blogger Valerie Ross: "If Drug-Slathered, Erection-Enhancing Condoms...
The headline pretty much summarizes Valerie Ross's post at Discover Magazine's Discoblog about a newly-developed condom by the Durex corporation that's impregnated with an erection-enhancing gel....
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De Botton Either Has the Best Spam Filter or the Shortest Memory Span Ever
Photo by Flickr user vistavision. Used under a Creative Commons license. Another way de Botton's claim... Erections and lubrication simply cannot be effected by willpower and are therefore particularly...
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